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Our Precious Heritage

13 Tuesday Oct 2009

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This past Sunday, October 11th, 2009, I was blessed to be able to preach at McFarlin United Methodist Church in Norman, Oklahoma. The text of that sermons follows:

Well, this morning there is good new and there is bad news. The bad news is, by my count, since becoming a full-time Ph.D. student, I have not preached a sermon in 68 weeks. Which is the longest amount of time I have gone without preaching, since I preached my first sermon about seven years ago. That means I’m probably a little bit rusty. And it means that you are faced with a preacher with a lot of ideas, who hasn’t had the opportunity to share them with a captive audience in a long time. But there is good news. The good news is that I have now found a captive audience, and you are it!

“Come, follow me.” These three words, it seems to me are at the heart of this morning’s Scripture reading. The difficulty is in deciding how we should understand these words, in light of all the other words that surround them in our passage from Scripture. In other words, the question that faces us is this: Should we hear Jesus’ words – “Come, follow me” – as good news or bad news? Are they an invitation or a command? Do they give us an opportunity, or do they reveal a threat?

If we are honest, many of these words sound like bad news, or a threat of evil things to come:

Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor.
The man’s face fell.
He went away sad…
How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God!
With man this is impossible.

But then again, other parts seem like good news, which perhaps reveals the promise of a tremendous opportunity:

Jesus looked at him and loved him.
All things are possible with God.
No one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age and in the age to come, eternal life.

So, how should we understand Jesus’ words in this morning’s Scripture reading? Are they good news, or bad news?

It seems to me that if we are honest, people have come to different conclusions about this question.

Many have followed in the footsteps of the man in this story who asked “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” When he heard Jesus’ answer, “Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” To him, this was received as bad news, like an unfair command. The cost of discipleship was simply too high. So, when he heard Jesus’ words, we are told that his “face fell.” And “he went away sad, because he had great wealth.”

In fact, it seems like the majority report may even be that this passage is bad news. In recent Christian history, it seems that most Christians, upon reading passages like this one, have asked, “Can Jesus really mean what he seems to mean?” And the answer is almost always no, he couldn’t have really meant that.

Like the Pharisees so often did when they interacted with Jesus, we look for ways to poke holes in the places where his words threaten us. We look for reasons to relativize or water down his statements. Sometimes the creativeness and ingenuity we bring to this task makes the Pharisees look like amateurs!

And yet throughout the history of the Church, there have also been many men and women who have had a very different reaction. Rather than seeing Jesus’ words as bad news and looking for a way out, they have focused on Jesus’ invitation – “Come, follow me.” For them, this has been such good news that they immediately followed.

In 1771 a 26 year old English traveling preacher heard Jesus’ call – “Come, follow me.” As a result, he said good bye to his mother and father and boarded a ship bound for the British Colonies in America. Over the next 45 years he travel a quarter of a million miles through the American wilderness, visiting nearly every state once a year. He stayed at approximately 10,000 households and preached 17,000 sermons.

At one point he contracted malaria and he was frequently ill as a result of having congestive heart failure and other ailments. His feet were often swollen, making it painful to even stand in order to preach. He may not have expected this, but as it turned out, he never left America. And as a result, he never saw his family again.

This man’s name was Francis Asbury, and with the possible exception of John Wesley, he is widely regarded as the most important figure in American Methodism. So, what could have possibly led him to go to such lengths? To sacrifice so much?

In 1771 on his way to America Asbury reflected in his journal about why he was going to America. He asked himself if he was going to gain honor? He answered, “No, if I know my own heart.” Was it to get money? He answered, “No.” So why was he going? He declared simply that he was going “to live to God, and to bring others so to do.”

As a result of his labors, one scholar has argued that Francis Asbury would have been the most recognized figure in America during his lifetime. In fact, Asbury’s British correspondents could address a letter simply as “Francis Asbury, America” and he would get it.

Asbury’s life was one of dedicated perseverance in his endeavors to follow Christ, wherever it would lead him and to invite others to do the same.

In many ways, Asbury was not remarkable. He was born into a pretty average family, he had a less than impressive education. And historians argue that he wasn’t even that great of a preacher, (which makes me feel a little bit better).

And yet more than 200 years later we are talking about him today. We have named churches and seminaries after him.

Why?

One way of understanding Francis Asbury’s importance is to consider the extent to which he faithfully followed Jesus. And, as Asbury revealed in his journal on his way to America, his goal was not just to faithfully follow Jesus, but to bring others to follow Christ as well.

And in many ways, this is the heritage that John Wesley, Francis Asbury, and our spiritual forebears have left to us. And their genius was that they did not just have ideas about how to follow Christ, but they actually had a plan for how they thought they could help bring these ideas into reality. They were certain that Christ’s invitation to “Come, follow me” was good news! They were convinced that there was no better direction that they could go in that in the direction that God was calling them.

And for John Wesley, who was the principle architect of Methodism, the goal was to share the message of Jesus’ invitation to “Come, follow me” with all the world. And so Wesley and the early Methodists preached a powerful message which sought to awaken people to the reality of their sins and their need for the grace of God. Wesley passionately believed that God’s offer of grace was made to all. And so Wesley and the Methodists often talked about the necessity of the new birth. (And in doing this, they were simply repeating Jesus’ words, when he said “you must be born again.”) But Wesley was not content to only lift up part of the message of Scripture. He sought to claim and proclaim the fullness of God’s offer of salvation.

Wesley believed that Christians are born again so that they can be cleansed from sin, so that they can be sanctified or made holy. As Wesley read and studied the Scriptures, he came to the conclusion that the goal of Jesus’ ministry was not just to save people from this life for the next life. Wesley’s study of Scripture led him to conclude that God wanted to forgive us and heal us.

In other words, when God finds us addicted and in chains to sins, Jesus most definitely offers us forgiveness from our sins. But he also offers us freedom from our sins. He wants to not only free us from the consequences of our sins, but he wants to free us for joyful obedience, service, and a life lived in the presence of God.

For some, this can be very hard to believe. We protest that we are not perfect, we all make mistakes. And this is certainly true. We do make mistakes. But Methodists do not believe that we have to do things that separate us from God. In fact, Methodists believe that God’s transforming grace is stronger, more powerful than our tendency to sin.

And if you think about it, the idea that God wants to save us not just from the consequences of our sin, but God also wants to free us from the power of sin, is not as strange as it may at first appear. Imagine if you went through the nightmare of watching your child become enslaved by an addiction to drugs or alcohol. Imagine living in fear that their addiction would cost them their life. Of course you would be willing to forgive your child for all the things that they had done that hurt you.

Now that I am a parent, I can’t imagine being in that situation. But I know if I were ever in that situation I would want to do so much more than to just forgive my child. I would do everything I possibly could to help them find freedom from their addiction. I would do anything and everything to help them to overcome what had them in chains, because for parents who are actually in this situation it can be a matter of life and death. Because forgiving someone who is a drug addict might not save their life, but helping them overcome their addiction could.

We would expect any parent to do whatever they could for their child if he or she were to become stuck in self-destructive lifestyles. If that is what we would expect of mothers and fathers, how much more should we expect this from our heavenly Father? How much more should we expect this of Jesus Christ? In Ephesians, after all, Paul invites us to try to “grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge.”

Methodists believe that God wants to do two things in our lives: God wants to forgive us of our past sins, and God wants to transform and heal us so that we are released from the power of sin. For Methodists God is always bigger and more powerful than sin.

Methodism’s approach to the Christian life did not stop at ideas. One of the driving passions of Francis Asbury’s ministry was to make sure that the Methodist approach to Christian living was kept in place and consistently practiced.

The early Methodists put tremendous time and energy into ensuring that Methodist discipline was preserved and practiced. (I will be talking more about that at this evening’s presentation.) The most important piece of early Methodist discipline was the weekly class meeting, which was a small group that met weekly to watch over one another in love. The key question was “How is it with your soul?” For many years, this institution was a basic requirement for membership. To be a Methodist, you had to be in a class meeting.

The combination of the Methodist belief in the power of God’s amazing grace and their disciplined approach to the Christian life was potent. Largely because of these two qualities Methodism in America went from being a tiny, little known sect in 1776 to the largest denomination, by far, in 1850.

One of the major reasons for this miracle seems to have simply been that people heard Jesus’ call on their lives as good news. To them it was a generous offer, a wonderful invitation. And so they followed. Many early Methodists followed Francis Asbury’s example and traveled throughout the American wilderness, spreading the gospel. Countless others followed Jesus, not out of their communities, but by living as deeply committed disciples right where they were. In every Methodist church women and men responded to Jesus’ invitation. Some became preachers, but many more became lay leaders in their churches, leading small groups where they checked on one another and did everything they could to “watch over one another in love.”

Our spiritual ancestors were men and women who loved each other so much that they refused to accept less than God’s very best for one another. They refused to settle for anything less than the radical, transforming love of God.

But this morning we are given a sobering reminder from the Scriptures that not all who hear the call of Jesus Christ to “come, follow me” respond with joy, or even obedience. Some reject it. Some have decided that they will not give up the joys of this life, no matter the cost. And they leave the presence of Christ with fallen faces and in despair. Some, like the young man in this morning’s Scripture reading, value money and affluence more than the riches and abundance of life with God in Christ. Others may have become apathetic, and it is difficult for them to believe that there can be anything more. These people hear the call of Christ as bad news.

But this is not our heritage as Methodists. Decline, apathy, and resignation are not in our spiritual DNA. I believe we can find hope when we look back and remember our heritage, when we remind ourselves of all those who have gone before us, who have responded to Christ’s call – even when it came at great personal cost.

So, what does God see when God looks at us today? When God examines our hearts? Does God see women and men who would walk away sad because of obstacles that keep them from being willing to follow Christ? Or does God see men and women who are seeking God’s call on their lives, expecting to hear it, and ready to come and follow?

The first Methodists were known to be people who responded to Christ’s call. And we are the ones who have been entrusted with this precious heritage. It is a heritage that provides plenty of examples both of the possibility of following Jesus and of the benefits.

Where are you at this morning?

Sometimes following where God is leading you can be difficult, even terrifying. We may even want to turn and run away. The obstacles may seem too great, too insurmountable, too impossible.

We may be tempted to ask, like the disciples asked Jesus, “Who then can be saved?” Who, when, when it comes at great cost, can really follow you?

When we ask this question, may Jesus’ words ring in our ears: “With people this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.”

Jesus is not asking us to first figure everything out and then come and follow. He is asking us to take one step closer. He is not asking us if we can see how the pieces fit together. He is asking us to take another step. He is not asking us to predict the future. He is asking us to move closer to his plan for our lives.

This morning, we are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses, many who spent their lives laying the foundation that we are now standing on. They have tasted and seen that the Lord is good. They know that there is nothing better than living for Christ. They know that Jesus came so that they might have live, and have it abundantly. And they know that Jesus came so that we might have abundant life. They know that it is a blessing, a privilege, and a joy to follow when Christ calls. And they want us to know, feel and experience that too.

Jesus has spoken three words. “Come, follow me.”

We have seen those who have gone before, and have chosen to follow.

And now it is our turn.

It is your turn.

Will you follow?

Marin Luther King Jr., Wow…

08 Tuesday Apr 2008

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I came across this amazing sermon when I cleared out my google reader account today. This sermon from Dr. King interrupted my day and shocked me with how much contemporary relevance it has. I commend it to you.

You can listen to the sermon here:

Thank you to Steve Manskar at Accountable Discipleship for lifting this up.

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 7)

06 Thursday Mar 2008

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The seventh sermon “Watching Over One Another in Love” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here.

This sermon discusses the Wesleyan practice of “watching over one another in love” through small group accountability. One of the central arguments of the sermon is that you will either move forward or fall backward in your faith. John Wesley understood this and used small group accountability as a way to help Christians keep their faith in its proper place as the number one priority in their lives. When Christians have gathered together in order to “watch over one another in love” both communities of faith and individual Christians have tended to grow in their love of God and neighbor. Especially for Methodists, when we discontinued this practice we began to decline and lose our zeal.

Have you had any experiences with “watching over one another in love?” How did it help you in your growth as a Christian? What are other thoughts or reactions to this sermon?

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 6)

05 Wednesday Mar 2008

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The sixth sermon “Finding the Balance” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here.This sermon discusses several different ways that the Wesleyan method helps us to find the balance in our lives with God. Christians have often tried to choose between faith or works, acts of piety or acts of mercy, or love of God or love of neighbor. Wesley helps us to find a balance that helps us to avoid an either/or approach in favor of a both/and approach.

One word of warning: I caught whatever has been going around just before I preached this sermon. I did the very best I could under the circumstances, but I felt terrible. I am afraid that shows a bit in this sermon. So, I apologize in advance.

Again, I would love to hear your reactions to this sermon!

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 5)

26 Tuesday Feb 2008

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The fifth sermon “Rule #3: Practice the Means of Grace” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here.

This sermon discusses the third General Rule “Attend Upon the Ordinances of God.” This sermon discusses those practices that enable us to fulfill the first part of Jesus’ double commandment to love God and neighbor. The sermon looks at the public worship of God, the ministry of the Word, the Supper of the Lord, family and private prayer, searching the Scriptures, and fasting as practices, or means of grace, that enable us to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Again, I would love to hear your reactions to this sermon!

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 4)

19 Tuesday Feb 2008

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The fourth sermon “Rule #2: Do All the Good that You Can” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here. (I do want to note that the podcast will have the most recent sermon first, and if I upload this past Sunday’s sermon soon, this one may not be the first sermon. Just check the title and if it is something other than “Rule #2: Do All the Good that You Can,” scroll down to find it. You will still be able to listen to it.)This sermon discusses the second General Rule, “Do All the Good that You Can.” The sermon talks about the second part of Jesus’ double commandment to love God, and love neighbor. This sermon provides a way to obey the command to love your neighbor as yourself.
As always, I would love to hear your feedback. What do you think are some particular areas where Methodists are called today to provide a witness in “doing all the good that they can?” Is there anything that you particularly resonate with? Anything that you particularly disagree with?

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 3)

18 Monday Feb 2008

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The third sermon “Rule #1: Do No Harm” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here.

This sermon discusses the first General Rule, “Do No Harm.” The sermon looks at the idea that in order for Christians to grow in their relationship with God, they first have to stop doing things that cause them to move away from God. In other words, before you can move forward in your faith, you have to stop going backwards. I relate a way that I learned this lesson when first learning how to drive a stick shift and coming to a stop just below the top of a hill. I had to stop going backwards before I could get the car to go forward.

As always, I would love to hear your feedback. What do you think are some particular areas where Methodists are called today to provide a witness in “doing no harm?” Is there anything that you particularly resonate with? Anything that you particularly disagree with?

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples (Part 2)

14 Thursday Feb 2008

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The second sermon “Just the Beginning” in the “Blueprint for Becoming Disciples” sermon series is now up. You can listen to it on my podcast here.

This sermon lays the foundation for the Methodist blueprint for becoming disciples by focusing on the importance of God’s empowering and enabling grace. It also argues that once we have come to an initial experience of faith in Jesus Christ, that this is just the beginning. We have begun the journey and by grace we can actually become disciples of Jesus Christ.

As always, I would love to hear your feedback.

A Methodist/Wesleyan Blueprint for Becoming Disciples

14 Thursday Feb 2008

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I am currently preaching a sermon series called “A Blueprint for Becoming Disciples.” In this sermon series we are looking at the method that caused our spiritual forebears to be called Methodist. John Wesley instituted an intentional method that he believed would help people move from initial faith in Jesus to a deep, life changing relationship with God. This sermon series is based on the conviction that many people want to grow in their relationship with God, but they aren’t always sure how. This series uses the General Rules and the accountability structure of early Methodism as a guide for a contemporary blueprint for becoming disciples.

Here are the titles of the sermons I will be preaching:

  1. The Method Behind the Madness (January 20, 2008)
  2. Just the Beginning (January 27, 2008)
  3. Rule # 1: Do No Harm (February 3, 2008)
  4. Rule # 2: Love and Serve Your Neighbor (February 10, 2008)
  5. Rule # 3: Love and Serve God (February 17, 2008)
  6. Watching Over One Another in Love (February 24, 2008)
  7. Finding the Balance (March 2, 2008)
  8. Where Are You Going? (March 9, 2008)

The first sermon in this series has been uploaded to my podcast and I plan to get the second one up today or tomorrow. (I have been having some trouble with gcast, which is why I am behind.) You can listen to the sermons here. If you do listen to them, I would love to hear your thoughts, reactions, criticisms.

What About Joseph?

19 Wednesday Dec 2007

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This past sunday I preached on Matthew 1:18-25. Maybe it is because I am an expectant father, I’m not sure, but I found myself really drawn to Joseph in this passage. I started out with a basic question: What difference does Joseph make in this passage? Is he necessary? I found that he was necessary and had an important role to play. Here is the sermon:

Have you ever heard of the phrase “third wheel?” Well, allow me to explain. A third wheel is someone who finds themselves in a situation where they are basically totally unnecessary. And it isn’t just that they are unnecessary, they feel awkward even being present. It isn’t that their presence is neutral, it is actual negative. It is when you feel like you stick out like a sore thumb in a situation, because it is just that obvious that you shouldn’t be there.

Now, if you will allow me to borrow your imagination for just a second I will illustrate this for you. Let’s go back in time about 4 years. Melissa and I were engaged to be married, but I was going to seminary at Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, DC and she was finishing up her last year of college at Oklahoma State University. Now, some of you are more aware of this than others, but this is the time of year when college and seminary students are finishing up their work for the semester and they are going home to be with their families for the holidays. For instance, this past Friday my brother in law Darren finished his last final exam and went back to Norman. So this time 4 years ago, I was on my way back to Tulsa to be with my family and Melissa was on her way back to Norman to be with her family. But here’s the thing, when you are engaged, and if you are honest, you are probably more interested in being with the person whom you are engaged to than anyone else. Especially if you have been separated for months by more than 1,000 miles!

Well, I won’t speak for Melissa, but I know that is how I felt. Ok, so I really wanted to spend time with Melissa. So, let’s say I flew into Tulsa my parents picked me up at the airport, drove me home, and then I unloaded all of my stuff. What do you think the next thing I did was? Yep, called Melissa. And before long I was probably asking if I could borrow a car to drive to Norman. Ok, but we still haven’t explained what a third wheel is. Now, imagine that right after I call Melissa and I tell her I am on my way to see her, imagine that she gets a phone call from her best friend and Melissa finds out that her best friend has just been dumped by her boyfriend who she had dated all semester. Say Melissa’s friend asks Melissa if she is doing anything. Melissa says that I am on my way over to see her and she is really excited. But then she feels sort of guilty because she remembers that her friend has just been dumped. So she asks her if she wants to come over and says, we are probably just going to go to dinner, why don’t you just come along? So, to make a short story long, the friend eventually decides that she will come to dinner with us.

So I get to Norman, excited to see my bride to be. I want to give her a big hug, a big kiss, and I want to just stare at her and rejoice at being in her presence. And Melissa feels the same way, she thinks to herself, man he is even more handsome than when I last saw him. I am the luckiest girl in the world! (Hey, this is my story, I will tell it how I want to.) And then there is Melissa’s friend. We have sort of forgotten she is even there… How do you think she feels? Thankfully, this story never actually happened, but if you can imagine that situation actually happening, that would be the textbook example of a third wheel.

The only person who I can imagine may have felt like even more of a third wheel, than our imaginary friend in the story would be Joseph in this morning’s Scripture reading. Matthew’s Gospel introduces Jesus birth this way, “This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.” Now, let’s go back to our story for a moment. Imagine that I arrive in Norman excited to see my bride to be again, and she looks like she does this morning. Stunningly beautiful, and with that amazing glow of pregnancy about her. Well, first I would want an explanation. Second, if her explanation was “I was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.” I have a feeling that would be a tough explanation for me to accept. It might be understandable if Joseph’s reaction was not one of joy when his betrothed is found to be with child, and the only thing he is sure of is that he had nothing to do with it.

We sometimes get so comfortable with the Christmas story that we forget how strange it is. We forget how much it interrupted some people’s lives. In fact, if we read the story carefully, it interrupted everyone’s life who was paying attention. The people who noticed came from miles away to worship, or they went to great lengths to see that the threat to their authority was destroyed. But so many of these stories we know so well, but it seems that one of the stories that we sometimes forget to tell is the story of Joseph.

First, we are told that Joseph is a righteous or just man. So when he finds out that Mary is pregnant, and he knows that it was not his doing, instead of seeking to disgrace her publicly, which is what most people would have done then, and would still do today, Joseph decides to divorce her quietly. That is such a simple statement, but it seems to me to be a great insight into Joseph’s character. Many people, even understandably, if they found out that their fiancé was pregnant by another man or had impregnated another woman, well they would probably vent their anger, frustration, and pain by talking about it. For many of us, part of working through our grief at being hurt by someone else seems to be talking to other people about what they have done to us. And that doesn’t just occur with affairs, it occurs with the biggest and the smallest wounds. But that is not Joseph’s reaction. I am reading between the lines here, but it seems to me that he really must love Mary deeply, because it was very easy for a man in Joseph’s position to obtain a divorce and to be absolved of any wrong doing. In other words, those around him would have been on his side. He could have ruined Mary, even had her executed, if he had wanted to.

But maybe Joseph loved Mary deeply. Maybe he was deeply hurt by this discovery, it may have felt like his heart had been ripped out of his chest and all his dreams of the perfect life with his wife destroyed. But still, he loved her, and so he decided to remove himself from what appeared to be an adulterous relationship, but he did not feel the need to do so in a way that caused her any more problems than necessary. Somehow, he seems to have been able to have compassion for someone he believed to be a deep sinner in the midst of his pain, hurt, anger, and disappointment.

And if that isn’t enough, once he has made this decision, he is visited by an angel, or a messenger from God. The message comes to him in a dream and it is this: “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

And then Joseph woke up. Have you ever had a powerful dream? Here is what I think is so interesting about this, how did he know that it was God? I mean, guys, think about it, if your fiancé got pregnant, and you knew it wasn’t you, would a dream convince you that God was really the Father? And even if it did, how would you react? It seems to me that Joseph still had a choice. He could have woken up from the dream and said, man that was a weird dream! But there is no way that could be true. Or he could have woken up and been even more freaked out and said, I am getting out of here. He still had a choice. He could decide that this was in fact from God and be obedient or he could do something else. We have already been told that Joseph was a righteous man, but now he shows it because v. 24 tells us “When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife.”

Now here is one more very interesting thing I want to point out about his story. During this time, the role that a father played in naming their child was very important, it was part of how they came into their lineage. Have you ever noticed what is strange about the lineage that Matthew gives just before this passage? It starts out: “This is the genealogy of Jesus, the Messiah, the son of David, the son of Abraham”. But when you read through it, notice how the genealogy ends: “and Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, and Mary was the mother of Jesus who is called Messiah.” Did you notice that? This is Joseph’s lineage, not Mary’s! But we have just been told that Joseph aint the daddy! So what in the world does this mean?

It means that Joseph has a much more important role to play in the story than we usually realize! I often don’t like the headings that are included that mark off different passages of Scripture, and it is a pet peeve of mine when people are reading Scripture and they read the heading, because the heading is not part of the Scriptures. When Matthew’s Gospel was written, there were no headings. They are added by the people who do each translation. So if you compare different translations of the Bible they will have different headings. In other words, headings interpret the passage that they come before. That means that they can prejudice you to what the passage of Scripture says before you have even read it. But the heading in my TNIV Bible I think gets this one right. It reads, “Joseph Accepts Jesus as His Son.”

Isn’t that interesting? But Jesus is God’s Son! But, Jesus’ lineage is through Joseph not Mary. He would not be connected to Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, David, and on and on if he were not connected to Joseph. So it is important that Joseph accept Jesus as his son. And so the story from the Scriptures this morning ends, “When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he had not union with her until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.” And he gave him the name Jesus. In naming Jesus, Joseph was signaling his acceptance of Jesus as his own son. We don’t have time to fully flush it out this morning, but surely that has some important implications for families who are not able to have children of their own flesh and blood and choose to adopt, or families where a marriage occurs where there are already children that are the result of previous relationships. In a time when this is more and more common, we would do well to look at the model that Joseph provides for being the father to a child that is not genetically your own.

As I read this morning Scripture reading throughout the week, maybe it is because more than any Christmas present that I will get this year, I am looking forward to receiving the gift of a daughter in April. Maybe being an expectant father has changed the way I read this story, but I can imagine Joseph feeling like a third wheel. Feeling like he is unnecessary, left out, and even in the way. Maybe even after deciding to stick around he still had to fight that feeling from time to time. And I have to confess, as I read this passage the first few times, I sort of thought, what is the point, what difference does Joseph make?

And it is in the connection of Joseph giving Jesus his name, which means the Lord saves, and thereby accepting him as his son that I realized why he matters. At many levels Jesus was an unpleasant surprise for Joseph. He challenged his hopes for his life, raising a child that was not his own was probably not on his list, not to mention trying to understand that this was God’s Son. And life can surprise and challenge all of us. In fact, it isn’t that this can happen- it does happen. The challenge that faces us, is when God interrupts our life with gifts that aren’t always immediately easy to receive, will we be able to trust God? Will we be able to receive not the gifts that we want, but the gifts that God gives? This is the challenge of Christmas that Joseph illustrates so well, because he shows a faithful example. Because what at first seemed like very bad news, Joseph came to realize was not just a baby, but one who would save his people from their sins. So like Joseph, may you during the Christmas season be able to recognize the hand of God in life’s surprises and interruptions and may you be able to accept the gifts that God chooses to give to you, receiving them with faith and trust.

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